Relationships
ESFJs are warm-hearted individuals who highly value their close personal relationships. They are very service-oriented, and their own happiness is closely tied into the happiness and comfort of those around them. They are valued for their genuine warm and caring natures, and their special ability to bring out the best in others. They usually do not handle conflict well, and may tend to be very controlling or manipulative. Relationships are central to their lives, and they put forth a great amount of energy into developing and maintaining their close interpersonal relationships. They expect the same from others.

Strengths

Put forth a lot of effort to fulfill their duties and obligations

Warm, friendly and affirming by nature

Service-oriented, they want to please others

Take their commitments very seriously, and seek lifelong relationships

Responsible and practical, they can be counted to take care of day-to-day necessities

Generally upbeat and popular, people are drawn towards them

Generally very good money managers

Traditionally minded and family-oriented, they will make family celebrations and traditions special events